• 5th April 1820

    [Mariana and I] came upstairs at 10-30 p.m. Sat up talking about my manners being too attentive; having too much of the civility of a well-bred gentleman – that I unintentionally spoilt people. Shewed her Emma Saltmarshe’s last note. She said it proved that I gave rise to an interest which people did not understand, or why they felt as they did. I promised to make my letters less attentive.